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July 12, 2010

#92 Art Disturbs, Science Reassures ~Georges Braque

Filed under: Accomplished Things — marginmil @ 8:16 pm

I’ll admit - I am not an art snob.  During my first trip to the Museum of Modern Art in NYC, I almost ran to the front desk to report an old television that was only playing static until a dear friend kindly informed me that the artist might have intentionally designed it that way.  Upon closer inspection, the TV was unplugged.  What in the world was this artist trying to convey?

I spend much of my time teaching my daughters to clearly state what they are trying to communicate.  If people have to invest time decrypting your words, time is wasted, progress is postponed, and opportunities are missed.  I’m lucky that my children don’t present me with major parental dilemmas.  The biggest dilemmas I’m faced with - original art!

As a mommy, I score original art almost daily.  Where do I put it all? The refrigerator can only handle so much.  Are my girls developmentally on target?  I understand the drawing of the two black pigeons, but why is the third one orange?  Have I raised mentally and emotionally stable children?  If so, why did she draw a hunter shooting a horse?  Am I limiting their potential by failing to see art through child-like eyes?  You can see I worry quite a bit over original art.

When trying to accomplish #92 (Own an Original Work of Art) to suit my taste, I had my work cut out for me.  I needed something that combined logic to comfort me and philosophy to challenge me.  My co-worker hit the nail on the head when he came across http://www.dna11.com/ while browsing the Internet at work (I’m sure he was researching for work purposes).  DNA11 manages to turn an individual’s genetic code into displayable art.  The company has been featured on Devine Design, CSI: NY, The Today Show, and numerous other media outlets.  What is more original than DNA?  What else is simple enough for elementary level curricula yet complex enough to perplex the world’s greatest scientists?  Only DNA!

I decided to purchase the DNA splitscreen on gallery stretched canvas - my husband’s DNA displayed on one half and my DNA displayed on the other half.  Several artists had to work together to complete the piece - The Creator of our DNA, DNA owners who provide the DNA (that would be hubby and me), lab techs who process and photograph the DNA, and DNA11 designers who digitally enhance, print, and frame our DNA.  There is a bit of preparation that is involved; however, this process was just as much fun as the actual receipt of artwork.  We submitted our online order on April 2, 2010.  Within 10 days, we had an official DNA collection kit in the mail.  Per the instructions, my husband and I swabbed our cheek cells for 30 seconds and transferred the cells to the collection card.  His collection turned into a white dot - exactly like the example showed.  My dot stayed pink!  The instructions don’t say what to do if the dot stays pink, and the after-hours support person was just as bewildered.  We decided to mail the collection kits and wait for the verdict on my DNA.  Perhaps I have some alien DNA, or perhaps my very existence would be questioned.

On April 29, 2010, I received an email stating that our DNA collection kit had been received and our completed artwork would be received within 4-6 weeks.  There was no mention of the validity of my DNA.  So far, so good.

Finally, mid-June, we received the carefully packaged artwork on our doorstep.  I was relieved to see that my half showed proof that I have DNA!  My husband must have been equally excited, because he hung the artwork before I could say “Deoxiribonucleic acid”.  The coolest thing about this piece - no one will ever have a duplicate.  The biggest lesson from accomplishing #92 - art may appear to be nothing more than randomly placed dashes, but somewhere behind the work is a life and a story.  Thanks again for opening my eyes, Mr. Horne.

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Title: DNA Splitscreen/Gallery Stretch (I need to come up with something cooler…standby)

Category: Portrait

Who is it by? Several artists as mentioned above

How long did it take for me to decide to buy it? Seconds

Why did I buy it? Loved it!

Cost: $729.00 (plus $25.00 s+h)

Size: 48″ x 18″

Would I consider selling it?  I would consider selling most anything for the right price.  (Let’s hope I don’t have to sell the original DNA during Thing #21)

April 8, 2010

Continue Your Gene Pool #101

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Surprise! At least it was for us :)

March 21, 2010

#88 Webcam Wedding

Filed under: Accomplished Things — marginmil @ 7:19 pm

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There usually is a great deal of planning surrounding the accomplishment of Richard Horne’s 101 Things; however, getting married unusually just seemed to happen “naturally”.  My (now) husband and I were planning on getting married in a quiet beach ceremony in September 2004.  Hurricane Ivan, one of the strongest storms ever recorded, devastated our beach just days before our big day.  My parents jumped to the rescue and purchased tickets for us to “elope” to Las Vegas.  With only two days to plan, I was certain our wedding was going to be a disaster.  That is, until we found Always and Forever Wedding Chapel online.  After a few questions, our wedding was planned.

Do you want your wedding indoors or out? Indoors.

What is your favorite color? Pink.

Do you want pictures and/or video? Yes.

Would you like a limo? Cool!

How many guests? Umm…none.

Would you like friends and family to watch via webcam?  HUH?

How did we go from a semi-traditional beach wedding to a completely non-traditional webcam wedding?  At the time, very few people in my family had even heard of a webcam.  Nevertheless, it was the perfect way for my entire family to “attend” without having to coordinate a massive military-style maneuver.

Fast-forward two days later - my husband and I are getting ready in our fabulous hotel room.  His “getting ready” consists of watching a football game; my “getting ready” consists of a long shower, painting my fingernails and toenails, taking an hour to do my make-up, and prancing in front of the mirror in my bridal gown.  There’s no pressure today.  The limo arrives to take my husband to his tux-fitting.  This means that I have another hour to flat iron every strand of hair while belting, “(You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman” at the top of my lungs.  He turns, right before he leaves, and gets down on one knee and takes my hand.  Awe!  What a special day.

The limo arrives at the hotel again with my husband dressed to the nines.  We laughed and flirted all the way to the chapel.  Upon arriving, I’m handed a gorgeous bouquet in my favorite color.  We waited outside a quiet room where another couple was preparing for their ceremony.  As soon as they left the room, we were escorted inside and met by the wedding officiant.  He spent a few moments getting to know our personalities and asking questions about our religious preferences for the ceremony.  I began to get nervous that I would mess up the ceremony, since we hadn’t done a rehearsal.  The officiant assured us that we would be instructed every step of the way.  A few minutes before show time, we heard another couple lined up outside the quiet room.  We realized this is why Always and Forever does weddings so well - they do them all day every day.

Our ceremony was perfect…for us.  The officiant was humorous (and quick), the chapel was adorable, and we hardly noticed the photographer snapping away.  And when it was over, we waved to the webcam and thanked our family for “attending”.  We celebrated the rest of the day the way marriage was intended to be - just us.

February 15, 2010

#24 STS-130 Endeavour Shuttle Launch

Filed under: Accomplished Things — Tags: , , , — marginmil @ 12:48 am

It’s pretty hard to describe how amazing it is to see a space shuttle launch.  You really have to see for yourself.  There are only five launches remaining, so quickly write your Congressman or Senator to request a VIP invitation.  Here are some resources to get you started:

http://usgovinfo.about.com/od/uscongress/a/letterscongress.htm

https://writerep.house.gov/writerep/welcome.shtml

I wrote our Congressman about five months in advance.  His assistant called me about a week after I mailed the letter to request the names of everyone in my party and the details on the launch we wanted to attend.  She said she would submit our information to NASA for “consideration”.  Almost exactly one month before launch day, our beautiful invitations arrived in the mail.  The invitations required an RSVP, which I immediately confirmed.  A week before launch, NASA emailed a detailed itinerary with instructions on where to meet the bus that would take us to the launch site.

We arrived at our friend’s house in Melbourne around 6pm and had the kids go to bed until 10pm.  We arrived at the rally location in Merritt Island around 11:30pm and waited in line in the freezing cold until about 12:15am.  They checked our IDs against the guest list and handed us our bus passes.  The busses shuttled us to Kennedy Space Center where we had to get off the bus, wait in another long line to go through metal detectors, and wait to re-board the bus while police dogs searched for bombs.  Finally, we arrived at the Causeway launch viewing site (about 6.5 miles from the launch pad).  We unpacked our sleeping bags and lawn chairs and tried to sleep until the launch at 04:39am.  I’m not sure exactly how cold it was - maybe 40 degrees - but I’m certain the night got colder as the wind blew over the river.  I don’t remember whether it was my shivering or the lady at the concession stand yelling, “We’re out of hot cocoa - sausage, egg, and cheese biscuits are $2″ that kept me awake.  Although, now that I think about it, it could have been the flatulent old man that parked his lawn chair above my blanket-covered head that kept me reconsidering the importance of “101 Things To Do Before You Die”.

At that point, I swore to myself that I would not attempt another shuttle launch.  That was also the same moment, 10 minutes before launch, that they announced that the shuttle launch was scrubbed due to clouds that could prevent an emergency landing.

We attempted another shuttle launch the next night (after deep soul-searching); however, my husband let us girls sleep on the warm bus until 10 minutes before launch.  I do love him so!  We were all in chipper spirits as we ran out to the launch site to hear the final countdown - 10 - 9 - 8 - I should call my mom - 6 - 5 - ring, ring - 3 - “Hello?” - 1 - LIFT OFF!

Husband: “Get off the phone!”

Me: “I don’t want my mom to miss this!”

Mom: “Is everything okay?  It’s 4am.”

Me: “Listen to the shuttle launch!”

The moment was so magical.  I felt like a kid again, when all things were possible and dreams really do come true.

Watch our launch video here:

About the STS-130 launch:

 There are several things that are special about this launch: first launch of 2010, last night launch, and last U.S. built modules delivered for the International Space Station (ISS).

The mission will last 13 days.

There are 6 crew members: George Zamka (Commander), Terry Virts, Jr. (Pilot), Nicholas Patrick (Mission Specialist), Robert Behnken (Mission Specialist), Stephen Robinson (Mission Specialist), and Kathryn Hire (Mission Specialist).

You can text “follow spaceflightnow” to 40404 to get twitter updates of the launch texted to your cell phone.  I was able to keep everyone around me updated on the status of the launch because of these convenient texts.  Be sure and turn the messages off by texting “leave spaceflightnow” when you want to sleep through the night again.

January 24, 2010

#83 Booooorrrrnnn Freeeeee!

Filed under: Accomplished Things — Tags: , , , — marginmil @ 7:58 pm

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Playing on a lava-sand beach in Costa Rica

The first time I went skinny dipping was in high-school in my best friend’s pool (sorry Mr. and Mrs. Weldon).  It was the middle of the night, the moon was full (no pun intended), and we were too innocent to care about getting caught.  I’ve been an avid stripper-dipper ever since!  There are few things more freeing than water hugging your every curve, moonlight complementing your skin, and…whatever that magical spell is that skinny dipping has on your soul.  I’ve skinny dipped at all different times of day, in two large oceans (Pacific and Atlantic), in rivers, lakes, and springs, in public pools, and just about every friend’s pool (again, sorry to those that were blissfully unaware).  Luckily, I’ve never been arrested, but I have been high-beamed by four-wheeler headlights on beach patrol.  I think there’s less of a risk getting arrested while skinny dipping, because that’s just an awkward time to approach someone.  Perhaps, if I’m ever confronted, I’ll claim the waves knocked my clothes off.  No?

There’s apparently a show called, Skinny Dip (http://www.travelandescape.ca/shows/showdetails.aspx?sid=9534), where the host travels the world in search of the best places to skinny dip.  Costa Rica happens to be one of the highlighted destinations…for good reasons.  Reason number 1 - it’s not illegal to dip in the buff in Costa Rica.  On the second day of my family’s Costa Rica vacation, we were able to sneak a skinny dip and got swept away by the long tide.  We giggled as we fought our way back to shore, were bumped and jarred by jutting rocks that stayed hidden by the gray water (ouch), and then were suddenly pushed back to the beach by the powerful waves before being carried out to sea again.  One thing is for certain - clothes would have been a drowning hazard (reason 50 bazillion for shedding your clothes before diving in).  There were a few people that were hundreds of yards down the beach.  For all they knew, we were wearing flesh-colored swimsuits.  We went swimming with a large group a few days later, but we were too focused on the sand building up in the lining of our swimsuits to really enjoy ourselves.  Naked is the way to go!

I feel like I can’t do this post justice without posting a picture of the view around me.  Enjoy this vision of tropical heaven…

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FYI - Baltimore actually attempted a world record for the largest simultaneous skinny dip in June 2009.  Too bad I didn’t know about this in advance; I could’ve knocked out #83 (skinny dip) and #16 (Guinness Book of World Records) in one try.  Perhaps this year :)

January 16, 2010

#98% Of Those Killed Are Less Than 3 Months Old

Filed under: Accomplished Things — Tags: , , , , , — marginmil @ 5:08 pm

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 *Notice how I’m standing as close to the barricades as possible? Read on to find out why :)

There are few places that conjure visions of protests and demonstrations like New York City. When we began planning our Macy’s Thanksgiving trip, I knew this would be the perfect opportunity to accomplish #98, Go on a Demonstration. I began searching the Internet for a PETA demonstration (my all time fave animal rights organization), but apparently they keep their operation plans pretty hush-hush. After searching for “animal rights demonstration day after Thanksgiving”, I discovered that the day after Thanksgiving is the most widely attended annual animal rights demonstration - FUR FREE FRIDAY! Jackpot! Caring Activists Against Fur (CAAF) posted details of their plan to march from Lord & Taylor to Macy’s, so I e-mailed them to let them know I’d be joining their group. A lady named Julie responded to let me know that another group, Global Justice for Animals and the Environment, was also meeting earlier that day to protest Canadian seal hunting in front of the Canadian Consulate. Double Jackpot!!

The experience:

I arrived in front of the Canadian Consulate at 11:00am, as instructed. It was freezing! There was a police officer looking around and sanitation workers cleaning a fountain, but no protestors. I waited a few minutes before deciding to walk around the block just in case I somehow read the directions wrong. Next time around, there were two more police officers talking on radios as if they were expecting some action to begin. A Carrot Top look-alike walked his bike to the fountain and began looking around as if he were expecting someone. It was now 11:20am and I was frozen solid from fountain-cleaning overspray, so I decided to sneak into the Rockefeller Center for a soy mocha at Starbucks. Apparently, this group was unaware that leather-free watches are now being sold in stores. I emerged from the warmth just in time to see a full-fledged police squad, an eclectic mix of people digging banners and posters out of backpacks, and Carrot Top waving to some members in the group. I knew these were “my people”, so I walked up as if I were a pro at protests and waited to be handed a sign.

My sign read:
WTO KILLS SEA TURTLES, DOLPHINS, TRAPPED ANIMALS, AND SEALS?
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About five policemen approached us to inquire about our plans, when the fear of #23 (Get Arrested) hit me like a wave of motion sickness. I did not want to get arrested today, so I shakily complied with everything they instructed us to do. They instructed us to get in “the box” (several metal barricades shaped in a square), and I was the first (and only) to jump in the box as if I were a new recruit at boot camp. The others argued that the box wasn’t necessary, and the police officers actually relented. They asked us if we had blood on us, and I began emptying all my pockets for inspection while the others simply replied, “No.” They again asked us what are plans were for the day, so I handed them a print-out of the e-mail that I received. By this time, it was clear that I was not a pro at protests and that I believe in peace almost as much as I do animal rights.

Then the harsh words began. First from the protest group when they began bashing recent decisions of the Humane Society (I happen to be on the local Board of Directors). I asked them if we could just all work together to make progress, and they agreed and were polite throughout the rest of the protest. Then, some of the strangest comments began flailing from the mouths of passers-by. “Abortion is murder!” “What about cruelty to humans?” “Focus on the economy!” To them I could only respond, “It’s all important.” Does anyone else out there feel that we all should do everything we can to make this world a better place? Some people were really so vain to ask, “How do I pimp if my fur’s not real?” One of the saddest things I witnessed was a mother covering the eyes of her preteen daughter, so she could not read our signs. I wanted to stop the mother to make her aware that her daughter clearly had no awareness of the world around her, anyway. She was much more focused on protecting her leather Mary Janes from the dirty city streets, as I’m sure her mother had so carefully taken the time to teach.

Overall, the demonstration was pretty moving. Members of the group performed a convincing rendition of the Animal Cruelty Olympics: Canada, Norway, and WTO (see video below). Several people expressed thanks as they passed. Others requested brochures. The police even endured freezing temperatures to make sure we were safe and provide escorts for the march later that day.

As a disclaimer, I do not necessarily agree with all of the beliefs and practices of the organizations mentioned above. I do, however, believe that we can all work together for common goals. Oh, and fur is dead!

December 6, 2009

Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade

Filed under: Accomplished Things — Tags: , , — marginmil @ 2:10 am

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Have you ever splattered tomatoes across Spain in The Tomatina, flashed your ta-tas during Mardi Gras in New Orleans, rocked out to the best bands at Oktoberfest in Germany, or soiled your undies as a ginormous clown barely misses the light pole above you at the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade in New York?  Surprisingly, none of these events were mentioned in 101 Things To Do Before You Die; however, I have appended my list to include many major world events (even ones that include flying killer clowns).  Luckily, my family has been able to attend the Macy’s Parade twice - once in 2007 and again this year.  I am happy to report that the clown mentioned above did, in fact, miss the light pole and the parade continued as planned…but it was a close call.  There is something so magical about watching larger-than-life balloons stroll through a valley between sky-scrapers.  If you have the parade on your life’s to-do list, I’m hoping my lessons learned might help you make the most of a once-in-a-lifetime trip.

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Skip the parade-view hotels and stay in a moderately-priced hotel around Times Square.  If you fork over the thousands of dollars hotels charge for window view, you will miss out on clowns tossing confetti, listening to the stories of everyone around you as you wait hours for the parade to begin (often told in fun New York/New Jersey accents), eye-to-eye contact with parade participants (often celebrities), and the overall parade experience.

Our family gave a huge thumbs-up to the Four Points Sheraton-Times Square.  Our room had two heavenly double beds (either they were made of fluffy clouds or we were that tired), a convenient LCD TV, a spa-like shower that never ran out of hot water, and a glorious view of New York (ask for the 20th floor or higher) - all with a trendy, modern vibe and for under $200/night.  We were a little hesitant to book the hotel because of reviews that commented on the shady neighborhood around the hotel at night and the small size of the rooms.  News flash for those reviewers: 1) all neighborhoods in New York are at least somewhat shady at night and 2) New York has a popular habit of building up, not out.

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Suck it up and arrive at the parade route by 5:30am.  There are people that actually pay to have someone hold a front row seat, and the best spots will be filled by 6:30am.  The balloons are huge, but you will miss out on the overall experience if you aren’t able to see the floats and the participants on the ground.  I snuck a peek at the people watching from the hotel windows, and most of them were squinting at the ground trying to see all the action.

The best idea ever…take ThermaCare body wraps and hand warmers in case the weather is chilly.  We didn’t do this the first year we went, and the hours we spent waiting were miserable.  This year, the weather actually got colder as the sun came up, but we were toasty and able to relax and enjoy.  We also brought iPods, a Nintendo DS, and snacks to keep us preoccupied.  I don’t recommend drinking anything that morning if you won’t be able to hold your liquids for hours on end.  The last thing you want is to spend a ton of money planning a vacation, wake up at the crack of dawn to fight people for a front row seat, climb back over the crowds to get to a bathroom, and spend hours in a line without even a TV to watch the parade pass you by.

Make reservations at a restaurant for Thanksgiving or you will be forced to wait hours at T.G.I. Fridays for a cherry tomato and a bill for $75 (lesson learned in 2007).  We booked our reservation through OpenTable.com about a week before Thanksgiving.  I recommend booking farther in advance to ensure you can find a restaurant the entire family will enjoy.  I have to say, we hit the jackpot on our reservation at West Bank Cafe in Times Square.  All four of us raved about every course of our meal.  The chef was even kind enough and skilled enough to create a vegan meal for me…I still dream about the carrot and coconut soup.

Most importantly, plan a few days off after you get back from your vacation to recover.  Trips that require a plan for every minute are exhausting, but you’d miss out on so much if you didn’t pack your schedule in New York.

October 18, 2009

Route 53

Filed under: Planned Things — Tags: , , , — marginmil @ 5:52 pm

I guess it’s time to start planning our coast-to-coast road trip (Thing 53), even though it’s still a couple years away.  I’d hate to miss a once in a lifetime opportunity in a state in the middle of nowhere and have to buy a plane ticket to re-visit.  My husband and I have decided to explore the northern part of the U.S., since we were both raised in the south.  Growing up in Texas, I was able to make road-trips to the east and west coast of the southern states.  I also made several trips to Missouri for family reunions and one to Wisconsin for a Green Bay Packers game.  Now that we live in Florida, we’ve gotten to see much of the east coast – from the southernmost point in the 48 contiguous states (Key West) to New York.  I can’t wait to see how the north compares.  Get this – our family of four is planning to travel the entire way in a camper van (see Thing 97)! Our tentative plan is:

Maine:

- Start in West Quoddy Head in Lubec, Maine (the easternmost point in the 48 contiguous states)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/West_Quoddy_Head

-  Drive down to Acadia National Park to explore more than 120 miles of hiking trails and 45 miles of carriage roads

http://www.acadiamagic.com/welcome.html

New York:

- Kayak or hot air balloon through a section of Adirondack Park

http://visitadirondacks.com/

Ohio:

- Chow down at Chrissie Hynde’s The Vegiterranean Restaurant, Bar, Coffeehouse, and Bakery

http://www.thevegiterranean.com/

Indiana:

- Ransack The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis

http://www.childrensmuseum.org/

South Dakota:

- Dig for fossils in the Badlands National Park

http://www.travelsd.com/placestogo/badlands.asp

- Stroll the half-mile Presidential Trail at Mount Rushmore

http://www.travelsd.com/placestogo/rushmore/index.asp

Wyoming:

- Catch a glimpse of bison, elk, bears, and wolves at Yellowstone National Park

http://www.nps.gov/yell/index.htm

Idaho:

- Pretend like I’m training to be an astronaut and walking on the moon at Craters of the Moon National Monument & Preserve

http://www.nps.gov/crmo/index.htm

Washington:

- Officially complete our coast-to-coast trip in Cape Alava, Washington, the westernmost point in the 48 contiguous states

http://www.experiencewa.com/attraction.aspx?id=1513

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I’m really excited that our journey starts at the easternmost point and ends at the westernmost point of the 48 contiguous states; although, I hate that we’ll probably have to miss the northernmost point, Northwest Angle in Lake of the Woods, Minnesota.  Other than that, what other must-sees should we add to the agenda?

October 3, 2009

Speeding Problem #64

Filed under: Planned Things — marginmil @ 2:26 pm

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Do you know someone that is difficult to shop for? Meet my husband, Matt! After 6 1/2 years together, I still haven’t managed to find a gift that he didn’t return or claim he could find cheaper on eBay.  So this year, I really stressed about what to get him for our 5th Anniversary…until I heard a friend at work bragging that his wife got him a NASCAR driving package from XperienceDays.com. Perfect! My husband loves speeding.  We rarely complete a road trip without getting pulled over at least once. As a matter of fact, I just put a money order in the mail today for a ticket he got on our last vacation. I spoke to all my male co-workers and called my brother to get a “cool-factor” rating on my gift idea.  The consensus - any guy would be crazy not to love it. So, I browse the available NASCAR packages at XperienceDays.com and settle on a $365 package that includes classroom training, five laps with an instructor, and eight glorious laps in the driver’s seat at our choice of track - Atlanta Motor Speedway, Bristol Motor Speedway, Lowe’s Motor Speedway, North Carolina Speedway, or Darlington Racetrack.  I’ll admit, I also bought one for me since it’s my 5th Anniversary, too. :)

A few days after ordering online, the sleekest black box arrived in the mail.  In it was a gift card for the experience, a picture of a NASCAR with a description of our race day, and a personal note from me that read, “Matthew, I wanted to give you the best ride of your life - hope you like it!” His much anticipated reaction? “Cool…how much did you pay for this?”

Anyway, we’ll be checking off Thing #64 soon.  I’m pretty sure my husband will come to terms with his non-eBay gift when we’re driving 165 mph in a NASCAR stockcar around Atlanta Motor Speedway.

September 12, 2009

#102, #103, and Space Shuttle Endnever!

Filed under: Accomplished Things, Planned Things — Tags: , — marginmil @ 11:48 pm

I’ve always wondered why people don’t keep their blogs updated…that is, until I fell into the black hole of life’s other responsibilities.

A friend suggested that I make my own to-do list rather than conforming to a list that was created by someone else.  I want to assure all of you that I’ve fully inspected Richard Horne’s list and wouldn’t want to exclude any of the Things from my list.  I get to add my own personal spin on Horne’s list, and, to me, that is the beauty of it.  BUT just to prove that I have my own unique goals in life, I want to share a couple of my recently accomplished Things.  I like to call them “102″ and “103″.

Thing 102 actually trumped Thing 74, so I had to put flying a plane on hold.  In December 2008, I finally completed my Master of Aeronautical Science in Space Studies from Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University.  Now, I need to focus on Thing 104 - completing my Ph.D.

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Thing 103 trumped Thing 9, so learning piano is put on hold for now.  My husband and I began talking about adoption in January 2007.  That same month, a little girl entered foster care and began her journey through many homes to find her forever family.  Matt and I could not begin the 10-week adoption classes because of his deployment schedule.  My mother and I tossed ideas around about what we would name a little girl, and we always agreed that “Katie” was perfect.  Finally, my husband and I were able to start the class in between two deployments in 2008.  We were even able to complete our home study and all of the paperwork before he left the country again.  Throughout his deployment, we passed the time by looking through profiles and contacting agencies.  When Matt got home in February and we still hadn’t heard from any agencies, we braced ourselves for what everyone said would be a long process.  Only a couple weeks later, we were in for a surprise.  A message on our answering machine said there was an adorable little girl that would be up for adoption soon, but needed a foster home within two weeks.  We called the caseworker back, and asked what the girl’s name was.  “Kaitlyn”, she said.  She moved in around March and became our “Katie” forever in August!

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Besides Things that get pushed to the side for other Things, there are also Things we set out to do that end up as ultimate failures.  Case in point, the Endeavour Shuttle launch on June 13th, June 17th, July 11th, July 12th, July 13th, AND July 15th!!  How did we manage to attempt a shuttle launch that would get pushed back five times?  Obviously, we were not destined to see this launch.  The night before the first scheduled launch, we had to drive all night from Georgia to Florida.  Somewhere in BFE, Florida we turned into 2am zombies and had to stop at a hotel.  I was so relieved to hear we didn’t miss anything the next morning because the launch was scrubbed.  We continued to drive to Kennedy Space Center to tour the launch pads and find out when the next launch attempt was scheduled.  We toured Disney World while we waited for the June 17th launch to take place (not a bad Thing).  I watched the NASA Channel until 3:30am on June 17th, only to find out that the launch was scrubbed again due to a gas leak.  I considered going back for the July 11th, 12th, and 13th launch reschedules, but thought better after I heard the thunderstorm forecast.  By July 15th, I had accepted that this was not the launch I was supposed to see and gave up.  The shuttle launched successfully that night.

I can’t complain about the failed attempts to accomplish Things.  I feel more alive during the JOURNEY with my family than while checking off any to-do list.  See our journey here:

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