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September 12, 2009

#102, #103, and Space Shuttle Endnever!

Filed under: Accomplished Things, Planned Things — Tags: , — marginmil @ 11:48 pm

I’ve always wondered why people don’t keep their blogs updated…that is, until I fell into the black hole of life’s other responsibilities.

A friend suggested that I make my own to-do list rather than conforming to a list that was created by someone else.  I want to assure all of you that I’ve fully inspected Richard Horne’s list and wouldn’t want to exclude any of the Things from my list.  I get to add my own personal spin on Horne’s list, and, to me, that is the beauty of it.  BUT just to prove that I have my own unique goals in life, I want to share a couple of my recently accomplished Things.  I like to call them “102″ and “103″.

Thing 102 actually trumped Thing 74, so I had to put flying a plane on hold.  In December 2008, I finally completed my Master of Aeronautical Science in Space Studies from Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University.  Now, I need to focus on Thing 104 - completing my Ph.D.

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Thing 103 trumped Thing 9, so learning piano is put on hold for now.  My husband and I began talking about adoption in January 2007.  That same month, a little girl entered foster care and began her journey through many homes to find her forever family.  Matt and I could not begin the 10-week adoption classes because of his deployment schedule.  My mother and I tossed ideas around about what we would name a little girl, and we always agreed that “Katie” was perfect.  Finally, my husband and I were able to start the class in between two deployments in 2008.  We were even able to complete our home study and all of the paperwork before he left the country again.  Throughout his deployment, we passed the time by looking through profiles and contacting agencies.  When Matt got home in February and we still hadn’t heard from any agencies, we braced ourselves for what everyone said would be a long process.  Only a couple weeks later, we were in for a surprise.  A message on our answering machine said there was an adorable little girl that would be up for adoption soon, but needed a foster home within two weeks.  We called the caseworker back, and asked what the girl’s name was.  “Kaitlyn”, she said.  She moved in around March and became our “Katie” forever in August!

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Besides Things that get pushed to the side for other Things, there are also Things we set out to do that end up as ultimate failures.  Case in point, the Endeavour Shuttle launch on June 13th, June 17th, July 11th, July 12th, July 13th, AND July 15th!!  How did we manage to attempt a shuttle launch that would get pushed back five times?  Obviously, we were not destined to see this launch.  The night before the first scheduled launch, we had to drive all night from Georgia to Florida.  Somewhere in BFE, Florida we turned into 2am zombies and had to stop at a hotel.  I was so relieved to hear we didn’t miss anything the next morning because the launch was scrubbed.  We continued to drive to Kennedy Space Center to tour the launch pads and find out when the next launch attempt was scheduled.  We toured Disney World while we waited for the June 17th launch to take place (not a bad Thing).  I watched the NASA Channel until 3:30am on June 17th, only to find out that the launch was scrubbed again due to a gas leak.  I considered going back for the July 11th, 12th, and 13th launch reschedules, but thought better after I heard the thunderstorm forecast.  By July 15th, I had accepted that this was not the launch I was supposed to see and gave up.  The shuttle launched successfully that night.

I can’t complain about the failed attempts to accomplish Things.  I feel more alive during the JOURNEY with my family than while checking off any to-do list.  See our journey here:

3 Comments

  1. Hi Gina
    Shame you didn’t get to see the launch but I’m really impressed you tried.

    As for making your own list, Go for it! There were three extra rules I wish I’d added to the original book as I always wanted the book to be a starting point for readers:

    • Think outside the box. You may need to take an alternative look at some of the Things To Do to before completing them
    • Use your Best Judgement. Some Things may not be your cup of tea. Feel free to alter to your taste.
    • Be honest. If you lie you’ll only be lying to yourself.

    But judging from your blog you also follow these extra rules anyway!

    Keep on truckin’
    Richard

    Comment by Richard Horne — September 20, 2009 @ 4:35 am

  2. Congrats on the completion of your degree and the new addition to your family. Also, totally impressed with the attempt to see the space shuttle launch. I have a friend that can see the launches from her front yard and have joked that I’ll have to come and stay with them one week/month to try to catch one.

    Have also transferred my blog to a new domain http://www.101thingsbeforeyoudie.com Check it out and let me know what you think (and if you could update the link in your blogroll too :) Thanks! and hope to hear more from you soon!

    Comment by jmeadows — September 25, 2009 @ 10:41 am

  3. Gina, I find it wonderful that you decided to do something good for someone - that is, adopting a child who needs a family. And, as it seems, the signs (the girl being called “Katlyn”)show you have done the right thing. As far as the space shuttle is concerned, I am sorry to hear you couldn’t make it. Obviously, the timing is not right. I am sure that, if you have do it, the opportunity will be given to you at the right moment. As far as I have to know you through our few conversations, I understand you are very kindhearted person, you want to enjoy life to the fullest and look at everything from a positive viewpoint - which, by the way, makes it a pleasure talking to you - but the three points Richard Horne has brought up in his comment couldn’t have been said better by me, and I fully agree with him.

    Comment by Manos — November 16, 2009 @ 4:01 am

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